I have struggled with this post, not even sure I need to write it, but here goes anyway.
I tend to lean towards the cynical and the sarcastic, which, I understand can be off-putting to some people. So, since I have a natural desire to be liked, I try to tone them down. Keep in mind the following is “toned down”.

Waiting for the ferry.
I did not enjoy what I saw of the Kos (Samui and Phangan), they are over-run by 20-somethings who are simply too sexy for their own good; they seem superficial and vacuous AND they smoke. Call me an old fogey but when people travelled in my day (can not believe I just wrote that!) they did it to find themselves and to expand their horizons. Sure they partied and abused every substance they could get their hands on but they had that underlying premise that kept them, for the most part, on the right road.
It probably didn’t help that I had just come down from the Elephant Nature Park where the young people volunteering there were so different from most of the ones I encountered in the south. Sure they partied but the next day they worked their asses off for those elephants! The Ko Klan seemed to only be interested in travelling in herds of like folk, in the endless search of the next what-ever moon party that could be found, migrating from island to island, cluttering the decks of the ferries with their tanned bodies and mindless party re-hash. I am certain there were young people of substance in there somewhere, surely? But the superficial, as usual, are just so loud and take up so much space they block out the sun. Who are these people?

On board.
Needless to say I did not find happiness down there. Now to be fair the only real-time I ran into the pack was on the ferries. Unfortunately I was just on so many of the darn things, trapped for hours on end with nowhere to get away from them. At my beach there were some but there was a variety of backgrounds and ages so the effect was diluted, though 8 out of 10 people smoked, which sucked. If they weren’t smoking, they were hacking up a lung. Jeez. Now a large proportion of the tourists in the Kos are from Europe, which I think may contribute a lot to the smoking situation as well as why more Thais don’t speak English. The poor people are faced with so many languages, how the hell could they just pick one?
Before you chastise me for whatever reason, and I’m sure all your reasons will be valid, I know what I’m saying is judgmental and so draped in sweeping generalizations it would be reasonable to dismiss me as a cranky old codger (or is it “codgette”?) the thing is that this blog is about my reactions, feelings, experiences – right or wrong. I sat with is for a few days, thinking that I might just have been tired from a rough down and back. But I still feel almost as strongly as I did sitting on the last ferry to Surat Thani for almost 4 hours.
Nothing tragic, just annoying and disillusioning. So, moving on.
Yeah Barcelona had that downfall as well. I could not breathe at some streets .
Where did you stay ?
Haad salad was more family orientated when we went . Koh samui had alot of 30 + people .
Did you at least enjoy the food on the island ?
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I was at Mai Pen Rai, which is quite isolated, so I didn’t get into town to eat. The 3 restaurants on our beach were ok but nothing spectacular.
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I know what you mean about superficial party kids ruining an atmosphere. We get that here in Budapest. There are certain places in Europe that I will never visit (unless I somehow win an all expenses paid trip) because of this mentality. I partied a lot when I was young, especially on my Thailand trip, but like you said, I did it to expand my horizons. They are doing it to be decadent, because that’s what’s considered cool nowadays.
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Thanks for dropping by. There were just so many of them, in such a confined space. Felt like they were sucking up all the oxygen and sunshine.
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I’m sure after doing battle with the trains, and your long trip, it compounded the displeasure of being closely confined with a heap of hedonistic smokers. We run into groups like that (on a smaller scale) in some of the camps we stay in. Like you said, move on and enjoy your next adventure.
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I LOVE that first sentence! But then I am a sucker for a good alliteration. :}
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I’m a little behind… I swore I was following you and then noticed I had not seen any of your posts in my rss feed, somehow I fell off! So i have happily hopped back on. You make a good point about how at least the younger folks that were at ENP with us were at least working hard during chores. honestly there were a couple that I wanted to bitchslap because I found their attention seeking antics to be very annoying. thank you for helping me to remember that they were still working hard and I guess, acting their age. I suppose that more refined… fun comes with age… much like a fine wine. or cheese. Happy travels!!
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hahaha you funny girl. Yes I have drunk so much wine in my time that I am not surprised to be compared to the stuff. 🙂 Glad you’re back on board.
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